Gab & Our Relationship

#1 If I may ask, when did gab start courting you? And how long did it take for you to agree to go out with him? :) I’m sorry, but you guys definitely make a really cute couple!

I’m not sure when he started “courting” me, but I suppose around the time he was asking me out all the time and I didn’t want to date so I just kept saying no. Well, I didn’t say no as in, “No” but I’d put it off as much as possible. I had a happy crush on him, but I didn’t want to ruin anything and mostly I was afraid of falling, because I knew I would. I agreed to go out with him after a month or so of him always asking me out, and our first date was so much fun… Seriously, without a doubt, the best date I’ve ever been on :) And thank you! :)

#2 Is Gab attending the star magic workshop?

Maybe. LOL Yeah he is. Did you see him around ABS-CBN?

#3 Do you and Gab fight? If you do, how long does it take? I mean, do you not talk to each other and stuff?

Gab and I haven’t had a real fight. We’ve had petty arguments like when I get jealous and stuff (HAHAHAH) but nothing big. We always fix it before the day ends. What I love about Gab and I is that we always communicate. If something bothers us, we always say it to the other person. There is no mind reading or “you’re just supposed to know when something is wrong or if you did something wrong.” it’s more of “You did something wrong and I’m telling you so we could fix it” :)

#4 wtf gab looks like christopher de leon, the filipino actor!!!! :O

Hahahahahahaha!

#5 OMG Gab is HOT. Please don’t hate me for liking your boy. Haha. You’re lucky, the both of you!

There’s no problem with you liking him. I don’t mind at all! :)

#6 gab looks like chris hemsworth nga on the latest pic you posted!!! hahahaa i cant even.. dang!! you got your own chris hemsworth :( :(

Bahahaha he DOES have the Hemsworth vibe. I love it.

#7 your recent TLFS post is just lovely! especially your hair! gab did an amazing job! what’s his course, btw? =)

Thanks :) He took up Photography  :)

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#1: Where did you get your hair done? I mean the curls. It’s so pretty!

Thanks, I did them myself with a curling iron/straightening iron :)

#2: Hey Camie! What do you think about those people who label themselves ~m0dels~ and ~ph0t0graphers~ just because they have nice clothes and a nice camera? I’m quite furious because even though I have a nice camera, have some ~funsh000ts~ with my cousins, I would never say that I am a model or a photographer (not even amateur photographer) because I believe that those are for professionals or those who are highly talented in that area. (e.g., students who took up courses)

I don’t really care for it, if I do come across someone who claims to be a model or photographer when they clearly arent, I would think they’re being idiots but whatever, you know? If they want to call themselves that, then let them.

#3: Hi! I love you blog! How’d you get so many followers??

When you’ve been on Tumblr for as long as I have (nearly 4 years), that tends to happen!

#4: Hi camie. I dn’t knw if u’re gna evn pblsh ths. But any, hre it goes. I really dn’t knw who to go to anymre nd u’re 1 of my insprtion becse u’re amzng. My stry goes like this. I hve bn w/ ths boy for almst 4 yrs, weve bn an on-off cple for tht 4 yrs bcse he has always been chting, lying nd hding things on me. For tht 4 years, i hve frgve him all thrgh out. But ths tme, i thnk i hd enough. i hve said a lot of bad words to him and i feel trrble. did i mde the right decision to end thing with him?

That was hard to read but I suppose you were trying to fit it under the character limit of Tumblr Asks. I’m going to give it to you straight as I don’t believe in sugar coating things when it comes to jackass douchebag boys such as your ex boyfriend. You were stupid for taking him back over and over, when you should’ve known that he would keep cheating because he’s done it before and you kept taking him back. His behavior disgusts the hell out of me, and you definitely made the right decision ending it with him. I say cut him out of your life because you don’t need asshole like him bringing you down. You deserve better than that.

#5: Is 52kg fat? For 5”2 - 5”3? People keep wanting to weigh below 50.

Nope. I’m 53 kg and it’s the right weight for my height. Check online for the proper weight for your height and you’ll know what’s healthy or not.

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#1: Hi, Camie! Have you heard the Oasap Fashion Hunter? They send you clothes in exchange for an outfit post on your blog or lookbook. I applied but I don’t get enough views/likes/etc yet so I don’t really qualify but, you’d be perfect for this, I think! Check it out! :) www*oasap*com/join-us <3

I’ve heard of this so many times but since I don’t really do much outfit posts, I didn’t think I should… Maybe I should. What’s the worst that could happen, right? I’ll look into it! Thanks! <3

#2: Hi Camie! I really like your playlists! I suck at making one soooo thanks! Hehehe :-)

Thank you! I’m glad you like them :)

#3: Hi ate camie! <3 I’m not going to ask something, but just want you to know that you’re very beautiful! I’ve been following you since heysilly days and you’re still the same camie juan. but of course, mas lalong maganda with the red hair :) you have this katy perry-ish / emma stone’s attitude, haha Idk! :) and you can be a victoria’s secret angels. srsly. <333 Have a good day! :D

So many compliments in one message, I’m super kilig. Thank you! Have a great day <3

#4: I would really really love to be as comfortable as you are with your body. But I have no idea how. I’m chunky and I don’t have the curves chunky girls usually have. It saddens me.. I want to be confident and wear all the stuff I have. Seeing my body naked just makes my confidence plummet to the ground.

Sweetie, you need to focus on what matters the most and it’s not what society says or what other people say/think! Society has brainwashed us to think that unless you’re stick thin then you’re not beautiful. Well, let me tell you this, being stick thin isn’t always a good look either. You know what looks good? Being comfortable in your own skin. If you focus on feeling good about yourself and having a “Fuck what others think! I’m beautiful!” mantra, then the good will shine through you, you’ll feel good and look good. So wear what you want to wear, do what you want to do, skinny or chubby, tall or small, what does it even matter? you’re a woman dammit! And we’re all made different! You may not fit into what society defines as “beautiful” but society is fucked up, why listen to fucked up people?

#5: wow camie you and gab are perfect together i wish you every bit of happiness <3 i could really use advice from you, see my bf and i have been getting ito a lot of fights. he always apologizes and says it is never his intention to hurt me but he stil always does :( he never does anything to make it up all he just says sorry. he tells me he loves me but i have no proof of it. tell me what should i do? :(

Maybe you need to focus on the good instead of the negative. The way I see it, if the positive side doesn’t out weigh the bad then it’s really time to re-evaluate your relationship and have a heart to heart with your boyfriend.

#6: why does the thought of being a model scare you?

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#1: Hi Camie! I hope you don’t mind me asking but.. where did you get your hair colored (last)? It’s a total droolfest, so prettttttaaaaay <3 

I colored it last using my remaining tub of Manic Panic Infra Red :)

#2: I loved you when you were single, i still love you now that youre taken :)

Thank you :) I’m still the same old person, after all :)

#3: xfeathers-fly asked you: you’re like the marilyn monroe of the modern day :) stay pretty!

That’s such a cool compliment, except I’m not a sex symbol… LOL Thank you nonetheless :)

#4: what do you wanna say to all of your haters? :)

Nothing, I have nothing to say to them :)

#5: Kisty said your hair is “dark brown or something”… Is it??? I’m confused because your hair is red.

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#1: Hi Camie! We have the same face shape and im a little insecure with my forehead. Can you suggest an updo that goes perfectly with my oval face? I love how you confidently flaunt yours.

The only updo I really like to do is a messy high bun. If you don’t like your forehead and want to hide it, then I suggest getting bangs :)

#2: I always forget you’re 21. You really look young to me. Its a compliment. :) I envy your relationship with gab. :) Also, can you give me advice on how can I get over my ‘WANT’ to always go on a diet? :( I know i’m not that fat, but when someone says I gained weight I would always be upset and skip meals. Help?

I’m actually 22 :) And thank you! :) As for the whole diet thing, I’m the same, but what I learned to do was change my mindset about my weight. Learn to love your body and never change for anyone else except yourself. So workout/diet for YOU and not for others because of what others think, because then no matter how much weight you lose, you’ll never be content or happy because all that effort was for someone else and not yourself. Learn to say, “Screw what others think, if I’m alright with how I look then that’s all that matters!” because sweetie, those who really care for you and love you won’t care how you look or how much you weigh. That’s what counts. ;)

#3: I don’t mean any harm with this question but I just wanna know if you ever accept others’ opinions when they kind of disagree with anything that youve said? I dont really wanna see you as this close-minded person cause you seem to be rational but not stubborn, I hope. Haha thanks

I’m very open minded, and I believe in the saying “To each his own”. Someone can share me their opinion but in return I’ll share mine back. It doesn’t automatically mean I’m disagreeing with the person.

#4: Hi camie! you and Gab are so cute :] hope you dont mind if i have a crush on Gab ^^,

Why thank you! And I don’t mind at all ;) Haha

#5: Hi Ate Camie! I’m from CSB too, I met you na, but the attitude that you showed me tells me that you don’t want me to be your friend, that you just want to hang out with your fellow rich kids. I though pa naman na you are mabait and friendly. But I was wrong.

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#1: Ate, how can I create like the one you post po evrytime na may Q and A na thingy. How ko po ma cocompile all the TAs I have whether its from an anon or not? It’ll be so much appreciated po if you answer. Thank u in advance (:

Hi! I just copy paste the questions into a text post. Easy as that :)

#2: I love how you embrace your imperfections, mermaid hairrr! <3 God bless!

Thank you, imperfections are a part of who we are, why not embrace it instead of hating/being insecure about it? It’s healthier for us that way :)

#3: you and gab are perfect for each other! really happy for you both <3 

We are. Thank you <3

#4: I know that I’m in no position to tell you what to do but I think you should refrain cursing or entertaining issues here in your blog. It’s for future reference. Charlotte Free is a model and used to have a tumblr and now that she is Maybelline’s new face, people are signing petitions to remove her because she used to have a lot of issue and fights in tumblr and formspring. I don’t know, It’s just that I feel that you have a good future ahead of you. :)

I appreciate your concern. I do really try to refrain from that stuff now. I know I can’t help it sometimes because it’s a part of who I am, but each day I grow and I try to break the bad habits that I know I will never benefit from. Thankfully I am nothing like Charlotte Free because I never start fights or bring other people down. I do the complete opposite. Thank you :)

#5: I fell in love with my best friend. We’ve been together for 4 years now. What I’m saying is I think you can also say those two first lines 4 years from now. :-)

That’s sweet! <3 I

#6: You look younger without make up on. O_O

I do.. I could pass for like 18 or so… But I don’t want to look that young. I want to look my age. Haha

#7: I really love how you don’t try hard unlike those other ~Tumblr Famous~ bloggers who post things that we all know didn’t originated from them. Believe me, you are no. 1 in everything. :)

Uhm, I don’t entirely know what this really means but thank you, I suppose :)

#8: WOW. Gab is so hot in his glasses.

I love his arms……….. LOL LABO. But yes. I love it when he wears his glasses <3

#9: Hi Camie!! :) I’ve been a follower of yours since your heysilly days and I LOVE YOUR BLOG. I can not emphasize that enough. <3 You’re a classy woman and your wits are truly admirable. I just wanted to ask if you also paint? Since you sketch, are you also inclined in painting on a canvas? :) Stay gold xox

Why thank you, good sir! :) I can’t paint, unfortunately…… :(

#10: I’ve always been a follower of your blog but I’m too shy to show myself.. I’d like to say that you’re one of the few TRUE bloggers that I admire. I don’t know why I feel the need to check your blog once in a while but I guess it’s because we have a few things in common. I wish I had a big sister like you! Gab is definitely lucky to have you and the same goes with you to him. You guys are like perfect for each other! Stay strong (pun intended) lol

I could be your Tumblr Big Sister ;)

#11: Hi Camie! Where do you edit photos? hihi. Btw, you and your blog is awesome!! :)

Photoshop or my iPhone :) And thank you <3

#12: www*wild-spirit*net/post/20771200537/a-little-reminder (replacing dots with asterisks) made me realize that you are not what i thought you were. thank you for posting this. i used to kind of not like you before (but never sent you hate mails lol). then i realized being insecure is useless. yes, you are not perfect. and who cares? this just made me realize that you are beautiful inside and out, camie. hope we could be friends or tumblr buddies or whatever.

Thank you for the honesty, and I appreciate that you aren’t one of the “haters” who go out of their way to bring others down. Of course we could be friends :)

#1: I have the biggest crush on Gab, he’s so fucking cuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuute. Ok. You guys are also one of the cutest couple ever <3 

I will let him know. Haha thank you <3

#2: Hey Camie I hope you don’t lose the creative Camie we knew after Andy.

Why would I lose that side of me? I find my creativity to be the thing I use the most out of all my qualities. Don’t worry, no one is holding me back anymore. Wild-Spirit, remember? ;)

#3: You’re a headstrong woman who’s not afraid to speak her mind. I actually admire that. : )

Why thank you, good sir! :{D

#4: Hi camie! what are your thoughts regarding plastic surgery?

To each his own. I think it’s fine but if the outcome is hella different from the natural look then to me it would look ugly, but again, if it’s someone else’s choice then it’s none of my business. It’s not my body to begin with.

#5: I think I saw you earlier at Gold’s Gym Katipunan, do you workout there?

That wasn’t me :) My gym is Fitness First..

#6: How is it like to be in love and in a relationship with your best friend? <3 :-)

The absolute best. I never believed that was possible, you know? I always thought that crossing that line would be all sorts of wrong, but Gab proved to not only be best friend material but also boyfriend material. He’s the best, and he brings out the best in me and is always there to support 110 percent of the time.

#7: Hi camie! What do you think about Long Distance Relationship? thanks in advance! :)

Personally, I don’t think I’d be able to handle it… So to those that do or are in one, I commend them for that. I’m the type of person who needs to BE with the other person physically… But I suppose if our love was so strong then the distance wouldn’t be a huge deal… :)

#8: Idol na kita. :) I really admire the way you handle yourself especially how you’re confident in your own skin. We need more women like you to look up to.

Thank you so much… It means a lot to me when people look at me for inspiration to change for the better… I’m not perfect and I make a lot of mistakes, but I’m glad that people prefer to see the side of me that tries to be good at the end of the day :)

#9: Hi ate Camie! I was wondering, why don’t you get a rebond AND a perm? :D not the small curls but big ring curls just like what you do everyday. Just a suggestion but either way you’ll still look lovely <3 I love you heysilly!!!!

It damages your hair like crazy and plus it’s expensive as heck. If I did that, then my roots would grow out curly which would result to curly, straight, then curly hair again… So, no thanks. LOL I like having control over what I do to my hair, so if I get any of those done, I won’t have the freedom of choosing if I want my hair curly, wavy or straight :)

#10: I imagine Hazel and Augustus (of The Fault in Our Stars) with you and Gab. No, I don’t mean the dying thing. I mean you guys are just so witty and so perfect for each other. <3 

#11: Have you read The Fault In Our Stars yet? Augustus Waters reminds me so much of Gab. I mean, not that I know him personally or whatever but based on your posts. Haha! Also, holler! Hahaha

I think you guys are like the 3rd and 4th people who have told me this… I know for a fact what happens at the end, and Gab’s name is also August… So it IS kinda creepy in a way… I want to read it though… But for sure afterwards I’ll be bawling my eyes out and my heart will be yearning to hug Gab. LOL

#1: You do know that when Gab said “what could get better”, he was being sarcastic, right? pssh.

I love how you think you know our conversation better as if you were actually there when it happened. No. You weren’t there. And no, he wasn’t being sarcastic. I would know. I’m the queen of sarcasm.

#2: hi ate camie, i really admire you and so is your personality, honestly i love everything about you! anyway do you have any advice about surviving high school? bullying, peer pressure, confidence issues, popular kids and queen bees.. i mean i bet you’ve been through all of that. i would love to hear from you :)) thanks in advance!

Thank you :) Well, in high school, I mostly stuck to myself and my set of friends… I was lucky enough to be from a small school, so everyone knew everyone and we were all friends in class. I was bullied in grade school because I was the new kid, so one day I didn’t want to go to school and my dad found out I was being bullied. He talked to the kid who was bullying me. I guess you can’t do that now, so instead of getting a parent to talk to the bully, talk to someone of authority in your school and get help from there. Getting bullied sucks, and it scars people. I know because I’ve seen it happen.

#3: I know I shouldn’t be jealous of you because you have a great boyfriend who is so sweet and random but I am. My guy sticks to his games and football more than me but he’s aight. You’re so lucky to have such a guy!

I am quite lucky, but maybe instead of focusing on the negative side of your relationship you should focus on the positive side :)

#4: You are so lucky to have a guy like Gab. <3

I am, I really am <3

#5: Okay. I hate you sometimes because you’re mean but I’m really happy you and Gab found each other.

I’m only mean to people who are mean to me. And so, if I was mean to you, then that would mean you were mean to me. LOL And thank you, I’m happy that you’re happy for me :)

#6: barbieinthewildfire asked you: hey camie. just wanna say i super duper love your blog. and I also like you as a person as well..^_^ there’s something about you that’s so hard to resist. you seem so likable and i envy you so much for that because for as long as i could remember, everyone seem so intimidated by me..;(( i dont know if you will like it but i sort of imitate almost everything in your theme. keep it up..:))))

I admire the honesty! Haha thank you <3

#7: You and Gab’s latest photos, where he is carrying you.. Your face screams a Filipina Lana Del Rey! I swear you look like her. You look like a mix of Little Mermaid, Jessica Rabbit and Lana Del Rey, honestly.

This is just too funny! Hahaha I’m like different kinds of people… Hahaha!

#8: Hi Camie! Do you repeat your clothes? Because you’re studying in CSB right? And I heard students in DLSU discriminate folks who are an outfit-repeater and its sad. Is this a fact or just some made up rumors? Btw, you are awesome and so is your blog!

That’s bullshit. Even fashion students repeat clothes, I’ve seen it. And so what if I do or others do? A lot of people like to wear clothes more than once. It’s called being normal and sensible.

#9: Oh, god. I pity those people who actually spend time hating you for your underarm. Gab’s right. There are more important things in the world than somebody’s armpit. Anyway, Camie, you are beautiful in EVERY single way. Inside and out. Ignore those losers. They probably just envy you because you can wear a two-piece or a tank top. You. Are. Beautiful. Don’t forget that. :)

Thanks :) Those “haters” don’t really faze me, because I know for a fact that my underarms aren’t horrifying nor dark… I’m confident in my own skin, and maybe the haters aren’t and they’re jealous that someone can be like that and they cant. It’s okay, I totally understand them :)

#10: Do you think a pair of high-waist shorts would look good on a fat girl with wide hips and fat legs?

I believe you can wear anything you want as long as your fats aren’t over flowing, which means you should always buy clothes that are your right size. Muffin tops (google it if you don’t know what it means) aren’t a good look and will make you look even fatter. You see, size doesn’t matter so long as you can work with what you’ve got! So buy clothes that fit you really well, not too tight and not too loose! You can be the skinniest or biggest person, but you will always look good if you’re wearing the right clothes and have lots of confidence to go hand in hand :)

#1: I won’t tell you who I am, but we run in the same circles. We’ve met but we’re not close… I just wanted to tell you that you’re quite the trend setter for the red hair. You dyed your last year if I’m not mistaken and this year the redheads suddenly started popping out of no where. In the philippine blogging world you’ve got girls dyeing their hair red like kisty mea, andy tecson, angela nepomuceno, jessa ang to name a few. Kudos girl!

You’re kudos-ing me for “starting” a trend? Hahaha If ever I don’t think I started it really, since there have been people who had red hair before me. Maybe I just inspired these bloggers to do something different, or daring, or new :)

#2: what’s your mom’s work? and i saw keep calm cards omg. idk what you call them

My mom owns VICARA DESIGNER KEEPSAKES with my sister, Ara :) We participate in bazaars and wedding fairs and sell jewelry and other stuff. Check out the fb page!

#3: hey camie :) i’ve been a sort of ‘avid’ follower of yours since heysilly and i just wanted to ask since i was always curious…i remember you were a big All Time Low fan before, and i wanted to ask if you went to their concert here in the Philippines last September :)) IDK if you’re a big fan pa though, but yeah it crossed my mind because I remember you made a post dati about wanting to see them live here

By the time they went here, I wasn’t that big of a fan na so I didn’t go anymore. I loved them back in 2008-2009. :)

#4: Hi! Do you think pink hair matches with a tan skin? :)

Yes why not? :)

#5: you’re very beautiful inside and out, Gab sure is a lucky guy <3 :)

Thank you <3 He tells me that all the time and I’m lucky to have him as well :)

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